New Video from D'banj;Bachelor... bashes up his ferrari

New Video from D'banj;Bachelor... bashes up his ferrari

You would not believe the kinda news i just got that's got me all pumped and in good spirits... It impossible to believe how fast prayers could be answered. That why most times i think to myself if its possible that God answers only the prayers that he chooses and decides not to answer anyone that he doesn't want to.

Anyway, remember when i talked about family in the previous blog? Yea, this is one of those things i was boldly referring to when i said that, Family is family, and you cant change that, so no matter how ugly it gets... you gotta take em and love em hard. And i really do love mine

Gettin a hang of it

Well, welcome to Nov 10... that last piece actually began my blogging but unfortunately i didnt get to post it and didnt want it haunting me from 'my documents' folder so i just had to let it out first... i mean.. dont you see i feel much better. My writing has come under heavy scrutiny these days as i keep disappointing my primary school English teacher with a series of gbagaun. I've however adopted the habit of blaming my ever-ready to gbagaun elder sister on any mistakes i make on English henceforth and thankfully she no dey disagree again! 

Back to my life huh?

I'm still struggling immensely to find the balance between the right thing to at the wrong time and the wrong thing to do at the right time with everything that has been going on since my dads passing. its no more a question of who's right or wrong anymore as it seems. Feels more like a tug of war but who's wants to throw in the towel first? 

And the minute one tries to explain to a third party, you run the risk of getting told i understand what you're going thru in the first five minutes of that conversation when frankly the person has no idea or clue what you're going thru. its okay when one tells you " i cant imagine what you're through" that is being honest even tho some ppl prefer to be told lies but for some one who isnt in the same or has been thru shoes to say that he/she knows exactly what you're going thru... at times like that i just wanna take my dirtiest smelly socks and stuff both pairs into your mouth till you really feel how i do. 

I'm still very thankful to those who have proved loyal friends and acquaintances. True Titans... As for family? they wud always be family... Annoying, provocative and most times damn irritating but they wud still be family and you gotta take em and love em hard afterall you dunno who you might be annoying, provocating and irritating as well right?... See y'all later..

OK guys... This extract was from the 14th of October when i actually began blogging... but i didnt post it. i still wanna begin from there so amma bring it in. (Ok it seems that my hearing isn’t all that good anymore cos my mum and aunties are currently singing some really funny hymns or should I say poems. Anyway, it’s the fourteenth day of October. Just a day to my mums birthday. Started writing this article on the dining table but currently sitting on the toilet seat doing some transactions. It’s been  just sixteen days since my dad died. And frankly, it feels almost like a month infact. Well, we had to leave lagos you know, leave dr regele’s house and the entire environment that reminded us of daddys death. I really just found out that one can only pretend to know what a bereaved person feels only through imagination so sympathy will always be sympathy. But empathy, is another thing entirely. Even I find it hard to believe how much I miss my dad. He was everything that was ideal to me. But ofcourse you all know the saying that you never value what you have until you have lost it. Well now I guess I’m trying to make some sense out of what life has remaining for me. Ironically I published my first magazine for my school in March with an article about how I missed a semester owing to the fact that my dad got too sick and couldn’t work then so there wasn’t enough me to pay up and write my exams and six months after i'm writing another one about missing an entire semester again cos he passed away. This year has turned out in so many ways unimaginable. So many highs and lows, so many good and bad. But facing the present, I think its most important that we bury him soonest and quell this issues with my kinsfolk God see us through. Till tomorrow before I check in again… Adios )